The shy man guide to personal dating success

of time worrying about being more attractive to women.

Making you feel good triggers the instincts that tell us that these are people we should like and enforce that feeling with a shot of dopamine.

Many geeks and outcasts learned in high-school that being funny as a means of self-defense; making people laugh helped keep you from getting your ass kicked.

Who knew that one day you could turn it around and use those same skills as a part of a way of getting dates?

However, as much as making people feel good makes them like us, there’s more to it.

They knew how to make people They were genuine interesting people with stories to share and a genuine interest in getting to know the people they talked to. I began to see just how integral being was to a successful dating life…

and I started to understand how to integrate it into my approach towards women.Because of the pervasive belief that sperm is cheap and eggs are expensive – the idea that women grant sexual access only to those who offer the best “value” – they tend to focus on the most obvious aspects of what supposedly makes men attractive: looks and material wealth, with “status” following third.The problem is that they’re working on the wrong areas and a misunderstanding of just what makes somebody appealing to women. more often than not it’s not even in the top 5 of what makes a man attractive.This is part of why a sense of humor ranks so highly in every poll about what makes men attractive.Laughter produces endorphins that go straight to the pleasure centers of your brain and relieves physical tension and stress in the muscles making you feel more relaxed.This is also true of recently divorced men who have not dated for many years and feel intimidated at the prospect of starting over.

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