Dating turn offs

Rambling on like you’re delivering your CV can sound like you're insecure about the image you’re presenting to your date, and that you’re trying desperately to make them like you.

Ugh, this is right up near the top of the list of dating deal-breakers and turn-offs.

If you’re on a first date with someone new, why are you bringing up your ex?

When you’re on a first date, it’s supposed to be a chance to get to know the other person better, not to use it as your own one-woman show.

Listing off all your accomplishments and why you’re so great can sound a lot more like you’re sitting down for a job interview rather than a date, which is a major turn-off.

We all know about those major deal breakers that send us running before a relationship has even had a chance to form.

They could be practically perfect for you in every way, but you just can’t see past their terrible shoes/questionable haircut/nasally voice/*insert whatever really turns you off*.“Also, if they list things in their biography that they don’t want, I don’t like that,” she says.E-Harmony found that using certain words when you are online dating decreases the potential for matches, namely describing yourself as spiritual, quiet or a good listener.If there are no sparks, you can at least know that you tried, rather than stonewalling your date outright.On the opposite end of the spectrum, we have talking too much!Just, you know, shower and wear nice clean clothes.

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