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In the nicest way possible, I made it clear to the woman that I wanted some real help in the dating game from a person, not a search engine.“Well I am not sure I can help you,” she said. Maybe she’s implying that she might be forced to set me up with dates with a few different women before I find the right one. Her rationale that there might not be enough clients interested in dating guys like me may be true.“I just started my business, and I am not sure if I have enough clients to serve you.” Enough clients? Perhaps she has an intake form that lists the types of disabilities one would be OK with dating. Perhaps she is psychic and knows my disability and knows her clientele asked not to be set up with someone with my condition.
Maybe I could charm her so much that she would take me on as a client for free. Her ads could say, “If I could help this poor slob find love, I can find it for anybody.”With my friend’s help, I upload my profile to the site.
I hear nothing back except for a few invites to $40 wine tasting mixer and a $30 square dancing singles night that are sponsored by her company.
So far I have resisted the temptation to dust off my cowboy boots or pretend I’m a wine snob.
However, maybe one day I will find the enthusiasm to take part in her trendy hipster dating activities.
Looking at the situation from my friends’ perspectives, I can understand why they give me this advice.
I think they assume a disabled mate will be able to relate better to someone like me.
I would like to think they have my best interest at heart, but I can’t help but wonder if there is an unconscious fear of suggesting me to certain people.
They might assume if they set me up with someone they know, that person might think they’re playing a mean trick.
“So you are saying you don’t believe non-disabled people can date people with disabilities?
” I asked a woman who opened a new matchmaking service in town.
When I called, I was barely able to get one word through before the woman cut me off.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating