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In the fall, he hopes to embark on an independent study in which he’ll read about the religious culture that informed him as a young man.

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There was a reassuring black-and-white quality to that stricture, with the promise of a juicy wedding-night reward for my self-control.

As for everything short of intercourse, I spent hours with my youth-group friends applying Talmudic analysis to the question “How far is too far?

Then another joins them, and another, and another, forming an ominous chain at the altar.

, written by Joshua Harris and first published in 1997, argued that traditional dating was “a training ground for divorce” because it puts people in the habit of quitting relationships when things get tough.

A few months ago, he started soliciting messages on his website from readers about how the books affected them.

So far he has received more than 300 submissions, ranging from reflective to raw.

They have confronted the movement’s legacy online, communing about what it meant to grow up believing that even sexual thoughts must be squashed to please God.

Books like Dianna Anderson’s (both released last year) have revisited the effects of 1990s purity culture through the stories of people who lived through it.

became a phenomenon in conservative Christian circles.

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